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Are Clients Running Your Business? Take Back Control

September 24, 2025

Face it, Your Clients are Running Your Freelance Business—Not You

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There’s a moment in every freelancer’s journey when you pause and realise—wait… am I actually running this business? Or are Clients Running my Business?

And honestly, it’s a hard one to admit.

It’s not that you’re doing anything wrong. You’re showing up, designing, meeting deadlines. You’re doing the work.

But somewhere between the WhatsApp messages, 11pm edit requests, and “quick feedback” emails on a Sunday afternoon—you look up and realise:

This doesn’t feel like freedom anymore.

And if you’re nodding right now, then friend… this post (and this episode) is for you.

Because we’re not just talking about boundaries today—we’re talking about power. Ownership. And the moment you decide: this business? It’s mine again.

When “quick edits” turn into full-time chaos

I used to think replying within two minutes made me a professional.

That saying yes to everything made me “easy to work with.”

That being “fully booked” meant I was doing something right.

But here’s what I was actually building: a business I couldn’t sustain.

I was creating designs at midnight.
Doing weekend revisions.
Letting clients move timelines and shift scope however they pleased.

I wasn’t leading the project—I was chasing it. And because I had no structure in place, clients filled the gap.

And their version? It was chaos.

The realisation that changed everything

It didn’t come in one dramatic breakdown moment.

It came in waves:

  • When I was pregnant and sick for months.
  • When I was holding a newborn and running on fumes.
  • When life happened—family, illness, the things you can’t predict.

And because I had built my business on performance over boundaries
it all started to crumble when I couldn’t perform.

Clients I had served for years? They left.

Not because they were mean. But because I had trained them to expect me on their terms.

Even from a hospital bed, I got messages like:

“Congrats on the baby! And I know you’re in hospital, but can you just…”

And that was it.

That was the moment I realised—I hadn’t just allowed this dynamic.

I had created it.

Reclaiming your role as Director

Here’s what I want you to know:
It doesn’t have to be like this.

And turning it around?
It doesn’t take a complete business overhaul.
It takes small, intentional shifts:

Setting the process:
Not “how do you want to work?” but: “This is how I work best—and it gets you the best results.”

Owning the timeline:
No more “when suits you?”
Instead: “I have space next week, or we can book for June.”

 Creating communication containers:
Whether it’s a Notion space, a shared folder, or one weekly email—you decide where the conversation happens.

 Respecting your time:
Office hours. Revision rounds. Response times.

When I respected my own time—clients did too.

And the ones who left?

Most came back.

And this time—they respected the process.

The tools I wish I had years ago…

That’s exactly why I created the Playbook Planner and the Playbook Desk.

Because nobody teaches us how to run a design business with boundaries.
We’re taught how to kern fonts and master Illustrator.
But not how to set timelines, guide clients, or protect our energy.

The Playbooks aren’t just tools—they’re quiet partners.

They help you:

  • Map your weeks with intention
  • Set clear processes
  • Guide your clients without friction
  • Organise the business side so you can focus on the creative side

And when you get stuck?
I’m one email away.

You are not just a freelancer.

You’re the Creative Director.
The strategist.
The CEO.

This is your business.
Your rhythm.
Your life.

And I want you to build it like that.
Because your freelance life doesn’t have to be chaos.

It can feel like home.

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Hi, I’m Nelett—graphic designer turned creatives' life mentor, lover of good coffee, deep chats, and helping fellow creatives design a life that actually fits. I’ve run my own studio for over 15 years, and trust me, it’s been anything but a straight line. These blog posts aren’t polished lectures—they’re letters. From one designer to another. Honest, sometimes messy, often hopeful. Because I believe the real magic happens beyond design. Welcome, friend—you’re in good company here.

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